tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8297277243038688130.post6659103274729372868..comments2010-12-16T02:59:38.592-05:00Comments on the pimpness chronicles: hhhhmm old blogs seem to reflect what I feel at this moment...ms fatti pimpnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09469450232794519546noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8297277243038688130.post-61637578169697933642010-12-16T02:59:38.592-05:002010-12-16T02:59:38.592-05:00Babe, you HAVE to be true to yourself. You are NOT...Babe, you HAVE to be true to yourself. You are NOT gonna be happy until you do that. Once you do that others will do that for themselves as well. I've been reading the Secret. If you havent read that yet I HIGHLY suggest it. I learned I cant expect people to do what I want them to do. I have to do things I WANT to do. Go head on with my projects and obstacles with positivity and when it works absorb that great feeling. When it doesnt, move on as quickly as possible and remind yourself neither you are perfect nor is the world. Be happy with you. I know you have been feeling like you are screwing up or you are letting yourself down. You gotta recognize that you are gonna have moments of "oh that was a mistake". instead of saying to yorself "why did I do this or succumb to that" or "I am such a failure" say things t yourself like "Oops, ok lets fix this" and work harder. You can have faith in anything you want but you gotta have faith in you first. Don't let people walk all over you. Make sure they recognize that they are hurting you or making you feel bad. You dont even have to attack them. Just simply say something like "Im trying to better myself and I need to be respected, I dont think you are doing that right now" or something like that. You dont have to do anything that would instigate a conflict you avoid by just keeping quiet, if they are your friends or just acquaintances even they HAVE to respect your opinion whether they agree with it or not. If they dont then Im sorry but they are not people you need to spend your energy on. <br /><br />You cant save the world. But when you save yourself first you will feel better about helping others and knowing that you made a change even if its a little one. <br /><br />Yeah as you can see, Ive been wanting to tell you that for a while lol.Natalia McCartyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11763065065848458853noreply@blogger.com